Posted by: neebelung on: December 27, 2008
So if you’ve been following along lately, you’ve noticed I’m not terribly chatty. It’s not that I don’t have any thoughts, rants or stories to tell, but it’s more that I’m spread a bit thin these days. Somehow I’ve found myself with not one, not two, but THREE blogs to post to. The madness!!!
For the last couple of years, there’s been two major things occupying my thoughts, and my time: the first is riding. Sportbikes have become mot just a hobby, but a huge passion, one that engulfs much of my time (not to mention, my money). However, knowing that you, dear reader, probably do not care much about Scarlet (that’s my new bike) or where I rode to last Sunday, I felt it appropriate to direct thoughts and posts in that arena to a specific blog, namely Nee Rides.
The other main focus of my life, for at least the last 18 months or so, has been our wedding. As I posted some time ago, I didn’t want to bombard this blog with updates on color pallettes, wedding gowns or flowers, so I created a space just to vent those wedding-related thoughts, here. And now that the wedding is done (or shall I say, weddings are done), that blog has morphed into one about our lives as newlyweds.
Oh yeah, and I’ve also been attempting to get back to writing on Epinions more regularly.
As things settle down into a more normal state, I shall try to post here more often. But in the meantime, if you miss me, please feel free to check me out at any or all of the above locations. Same Nee, different places.
Posted by: neebelung on: October 10, 2008
*sigh*
Peace. Quiet. A distinct lack of chaos. FINALLY.
After almost 17 months of planning, excitement, planning, anticipation, planning and WOO HOOOO, our wedding(s) has come and gone. Much as we tried not to let the tedium of planning take over our lives, to a degree, it still did. Especially toward the end there, these last few months. We were hard-pressed to go a day without having some wedding related project to complete, appointment to go to, or shopping to do. Mind you, I’m not complaining, as it was all very exciting, and the rush of it all was so much fun… I had to remind myself to take time to stop and enjoy it, lest it be over before I even knew it.
And now it’s over….
And now we have peace.
As much as I loved the planning and all that surrounded the wedding itself, I think the tranquility and contentedness that comes with the marriage itself is far more satisfying. Granted, I acknowledge that we’re still in the honeymoon phase, so of COURSE it’s going to be good right now. But more than that, it just feels right. It feels like this is what a happy home and a healthy marriage is supposed to feel like. And it’s just good.
So now it’s time to sit back, take a deep breath, and just enjoy what lies ahead.
Posted by: neebelung on: September 12, 2008
We are at .. oh… let’s see…..
T-minus 15 days!!
(till the wedding, that is)
WHOO HOOOOOOOOOOO!
That is all.
Posted by: neebelung on: September 12, 2008
First off, let me say, I hate the term “pet owner.” I don’t believe that by bringing an animal into your home, they become a possession that you now own. I believe they are a responsibility not unlike a child. So it follows that I feel very strongly about those who show a complete lack of responsibility with regard to their pets, especially cats and dogs…
What brings this to mind is something that happened to me on Tuesday morning of this week….
(and let me preface this — again — by saying if you’re a critter lover, this is a very sad story….)
So Tuesday, I’m on my way into work. I’m on a major, 6-lane divided road in morning traffic (going about 50). I’m in the middle lane, and there’s a Honda Civic in the inside lane, about 2 car lengths behind me.
I’m coming up on a major intersection, when a big dog comes running out into the street. I slam on the brakes and manage to stop short of hitting him, but the guy in the lane next to me wasn’t so fortunate (nor was the dog). The poor pup was killed instantly.
Well I FREAKED… I’m literally hyperventilating, just flipping out and I pull over to collect myself…. (of course, my mind races to “Oh my God, there’s school buses of children going by, seeing this poor creature in the road… what if that dog belonged to one of those kids…..” etc….. yes, my imagination works overtime).
I was just LIVID… so angry, I couldn’t stop screaming (or crying). It wasn’t this poor pup’s fault that he had irresponsible owners, and yet he’s the one who lost his life because of their selfish stupidity.
As the day wore on, however, I did entertain the idea that he might well have been a homeless dog, a stray (it all happened to quickly for me to notice if he wore a collar or not). And yet the stray animal population is still a problem rooted in irresponsible pet ownership: refusal to properly contain pets, and refusal to have them spayed and neutered.
So for my second PSA of the day, I would just like to remind everyone of the importance of spaying and neutering. There’s nothing more to say than it’s simply the RIGHT thing to do.
For more information, please visit:
Posted by: neebelung on: September 12, 2008
PSA:
While I know this story has made news at the national level, the story of missing toddler Caylee Anthony hits particularly close to home for those of us here in Florida.
A website and forum have been set up for those concerned about and praying for justice for her
http://www.justiceforcaylee.com/
Please check it out, register and do whatever you can to help bring about justice for her.
Posted by: neebelung on: July 20, 2008
As always, courtesy of LunaNina:
Posted by: neebelung on: July 13, 2008
Being active on “the net,” both in blogging, and on various forums, there’s an underlying sentiment that one hears all too often, whenever there’s drama or strife:
“Don’t take it too seriously… it’s only the internet.”
For the most part, that’s true. When you’re having discussions of a none-too-personal nature with people whom you will probably never meet, it’s easy to adopt (and adhere to) that mantra. But there are exceptions….
Back in 2003-2004, when I first began blogging, I encountered (in my reading) someone whom I can only describe as a kindred spirit. He was a guy, close to my own age, out in the same part of the world where I was born and raised (Orange County, CA), with whom I felt an instant connection. No, no, not some soul-mates/star-crossed-lovers-who-never-met/romantic kinda connection… but a connection nonetheless. His writing and his sense of humor captivated me, and over time we developed a friendship of sorts, even spoke of getting together when next I visited my family that lived in his area.
As often happens, life intervenes, and I dropped off the blogosphere for a while, only to be ‘reunited’ with “Da Gimpy Pimp” on (of all sites) MySpace. We’d correspond here and there (he was no longer blogging, nor was I, at this time), and catch each other up on where we were at in live, love, work, and family… If there was one thing that was a given, it’s that any message or IM from him would leave me smiling (if not in fits of hysteric laughter). It was just part of his innate charm.
I say “was,” because I recently learned of his untimely passing (untimely… I always hate it when people say that — as if any passing is “timely?”). And yet it seems an appropriate adjective in this situation, because while so many people shuffle around their daily life, barely living, just doing what they have to do to get from one day to the next, James was absolutely living each day, each moment, to it’s absolute fullest. And so it seems … well… unfair (to say the least) that someone who was absolutely LIVING is no longer … well… living.
So now coming full circle to my point here… about not taking the net (and the people we meet on it) so seriously… The news of James’ passing hit me. Hard. I have to thank a friend and co-worker of his (another person I met via the blogosphere, and kept in contact with via MySpace — thank you, Feendizzle) for contacting me, and letting me know of his passing, lest I might never have known, might have just chalked his not responding to my messages as ‘life getting in the way,” or something.
When I learned of his death, and (at Feen’s suggestion) googled his name to see all the tributes to him, all over the ‘net, I actually broke down and cried. Cried tears for a man I’d never met, but certainly wish I had. And I’m certain I’m not the only ’stranger’ whom he touched… I’m sure there’s countless people with whom he corresponded, exchanged an occasional IM or email with, who are also deeply affected by this loss.
Rest in peace, James… you are missed.
Posted by: neebelung on: July 13, 2008
I say … and you think … ?
Posted by: neebelung on: July 3, 2008
Upon sharing my rant (see previous entry) with a friend, she directed me to this site. See, apparently I’m not the only woman who takes exception to the ridiculous marketing practices of feminine hygiene companies!!
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‘Have a Happy Period’
This is an actual letter from an Austin woman sent to American company Proctor and Gamble regarding their feminine products. She really gets rolling after the first paragraph… PC Magazine’s 2007 editors’ choice for best webmail-award-winning letter….
Dear Mr. Thatcher,
I have been a loyal user of your ‘Always’ maxi pads for over 20 years and I appreciate many of their features. Why, without the Leak Guard Core or Dri-Weave absorbency, I’d probably never go horseback riding or salsa dancing, and I’d certainly steer clear of running up and down the beach in tight, white shorts. But my favorite feature has to be your revolutionary Flexi-Wings. Kudos on being the only company smart enough to realize how crucial it is that maxi pads be aerodynamic. I can’t tell you how safe and secure I feel each month knowing there’s a little F-16 in my pants.
Have you ever had a menstrual period, Mr. Thatcher? Ever suffered from th e curse’? I’m guessing you haven’t. Well, my time of the month is starting right now. As I type, I can already feel hormonal forces violently surging through my body. Just a few minutes from now, my body will adjust and I’ll be transformed into what my husband likes to call ‘an inbred hillbilly with knife skills. Isn’t the human body amazing?
As Brand Manager in the Feminine-Hygiene Division, you’ve no doubt seen quite a bit of research on what exactly happens during your customers monthly visits from ‘Aunt Flo’. Therefore, you must know about the bloating, puffiness, and cramping we endure, and about our intense mood swings, crying jags, and out-of-control behavior . You surely reali ze it’s a tough time for most women. In fact, only last week, my friend Kayla fought the violent urge to shove her boyfriend’s testicles into a George Foreman Grill just because he told her he thought Grey ’s Anatomy was written by drunken chimps. Crazy!
The point is, sir, you of all people must realize that America is just crawling with homicidal maniacs in Capri pants… Which brings me to the reason for my letter. Last month, while in the throes of cramping so painful I wanted to reach inside my body and yank out my uterus, I opened an Always maxi-pad, and there, printed on the adhesive backing, were these words: ‘Have a Happy Period.’
Are you fu*ing kidding me? What I mean is, does any part of your tiny middle-manager brain really think happiness — actual smiling, laughing happiness is possible during a menstrual period? Did anything mentioned above sound the least bit pleasurable? Well, did it, James? FYI, unless you’re some kind of sick S&M freak girl, there will never be anything ‘happy’ about a day in which you have to jack yourself up on Motrin and Kahlua and lock yourself in your house just so you don’t march down to the local Walgreen’s armed with a hunting rifle and a sketchy plan to end your life in a blaze of glory.
For the love of God, pull your head out, man! If you just have to slap a moronic message on a maxi pad, wouldn’t it make more sense to say something that’s actually pertinent, like ‘Put down the Hammer’ or ‘Vehicular Manslaughter is Wrong’, or are you just picking on us?
Sir, please inform your Accounting Department that, effective immediately, there will be an $8 drop in monthly profits, for I have chosen to take my maxi-pad business elsewhere And though I will certainly miss your Flexi-Wings, I will not for one minute miss your brand of condescending bullshit. And that’s a promise I will keep. Always….
Best,
Wendi Aarons
Austin , TX